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The Alpha Female and the Alpha Male know that the surest way to kill attraction (or fail to ignite it) is by displaying a lack of confidence. Even if you are not naturally confident, you can fake it until you make it. 
Luckily, there are some "bad boys" out there who are polite, good-looking, high status, etc... and only need the 'right girl', or Bad Girl Bianca's Seduction Guide to coax that Alpha Male out of them. :-) Nonetheless, my friends, confidence is key.
Beta Female: Calls other women "bitches" and "sluts" and compares herself to others which backfires and makes the 'others' look more attractive. ALPHA FEMALE: Never puts another woman down behind her back. She only acknowledges other women in nice ways. Beta Male: Buys inappropriate gifts, calls/texts every day, shows that he's grateful to have the chance to be with her. ALPHA MALE: Waits to let a woman know he digs her and assumes that she likes him because she makes time for him. Beta Female: Asks if these jeans make her look fat..."No, sweetie, your fat makes you look fat". (If you don't like the way you look then start working out and validate yourself. ALPHA FEMALE: Appreciates her uniqueness… she constantly takes care of herself, including her body, because she loves and respects who she is. 
Beta Male: Has a 3 date rule… and misses out on the woman who would have been a "freak" for him had she only been emotionally connected.ALPHA MALE: Doesn't pressure a woman for sex… because he knows it's gonna happen in time and anything of value is worth waiting for. Beta Female: Gives up all outside interests and makes her man the center of her universe. ALPHA FEMALE: Keeps her own friendships, passions and interests and only lets men stay in her life when they enhance it. Beta Male: Asks for a kiss, gets denied, and goes home without closing the deal. ALPHA MALE: Grabs a woman and kisses her passionately… a master of the bold move… he doesn't even wait until the end of the first date. Beta Female: Makes herself extra-available for a guy she doesn't even know. ALPHA FEMALE: Lets a man know that she's choosing him, then sits back and waits for him to pursue her… she's busy with other things/people in the process. Beta Male: Says "whatever you want to do"… not realizing that women generally don't like to make decisions and appreciate being told what's what. ALPHA MALE: Tells a woman what they're doing for the evening. He has a backup plan (just in case she's an alpha woman who vetoes his idea). Beta Female: Lets people define her, agrees for the sake of being agreeable, sleeps with a guy to get him to like her and puts up with disrespect. ALPHA FEMALE: Is in control of her emotions, thinks before she acts, settles for nothing less than the best, and is completely untameable. Beta Male: Has part of the package, but is to shy to execute. ALPHA MALE: Is brash, bold, funny, cocky and never underestimates himself. Beta Female: Flaunts her sexuality… even when she's uncomfortable doing so… and wears sexy underwear to catch a "man" and not for her own enjoyment. ALPHA FEMALE: Drips with sex appeal and wouldn't be caught dead in hooker clothes to "catch a man" or grubby underwear "cause no one is looking". Beta Male: Is more in love with happily ever after and looks for a woman to play the part of wifey. ALPHA MALE: Is up front with the girls he talks to… letting them know that he will only commit to the right woman… if at all. Beta Female: Throws a fit, calls him constantly and asks him where he was and who he was with whenever he has a guy's night out. ALPHA FEMALE: Knows that people need to hang with their friends, so she happily sends him out with the boys while she takes care of herself or kicks it with her friends. The above is pretty much interchangeable as far as men and women go… Yet, women especially evolve through relationships. Since women tend to be more self-actualizing, they go for men who are in line with their thoughts about themselves and their potential. Many women want a man who is more dominant (confident and unpredictable) than she is and if he isn't, then she will seek out a more dominant partner. Sure this may sound harsh, but it's the reality I see. Not to get all Aldous Huxley on ya, but alpha females will hook up with alpha males... beta females will pair with beta males. Not that there's anything wrong with that, because people are different and have different tastes/opinions, etc... but if you wanna to find the best possible match for you... be it first, and only then you will attract the best. :-) Happy Relating~ Related Articles * The Alpha Female * How to Be Sexy * How to Love Yourself: Why Alpha? Return from Attractive Alpha Females and Males
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