Alpha Female Body Language

We rely on non-verbal communication to tell us who we’re dealing with.

The problem with most women is that they don’t know how to be subtly sexual.

These tips will help you gain the edge when dealing with men.

You don’t have to do ALL of the things on this list (though the "total package" works!)… even if you only take one of these tips, you’ll kick your sexiness up a few notches. Remember that all of the following steps should be “suggestive”, not overtly flirtatious.




ALPHA FEMALE BODY LANGUAGE IS:


A fierce walk

On ANTM, Tyra Banks talks about being fierce when walking down the runway. For most of us, the runway is the hallway at work, the aisle at Target, or the 50-yard mini-dash from the gas pump to the cashier.

When you’re walking by yourself, or even in a group, the fierce walk is a body language signal that shows men that you’re confident and poised. They can’t get enough of confidence in women… it’s the ultimate turn-on for both genders.

Keys for a fierce walk:

Head high, back straight, long and quick strides, shoulders back, a little wiggle in your walk.

And know that high heels are your friend because they make your butt, back, and legs look incredibly delicious. It’s like losing 5 pounds without exercise!

Smiling with your eyes

Again, Tyra said it best. Smiling with your eyes is an art form. But not just a nice, friendly smile… you want to devilishly grin with your eyes.

If you think about sex, it shows through on your face… so think about sex!

Think about passion, think about intensity, think about the way you feel when you’re utterly satisfied… and let your eyes do the talking. This alpha female body language tip will have men eating out of the palm of your hands.

SAY CHEESE!

Look at men like you’re taking a picture. You can practice this in the mirror before going out. Just look at yourself in the mirror while you’re posing. Commit to memory the way that you’re holding your face and body and use it when you’re talking to men.

Since they are visual creatures, they will hold the image of your “pose” in their heads and think of you as more desirable and sexy.

Your laugh

Giggle, smirk, grin, hoot, even an evil laugh works… laughing shows that you’re playful and fun. It also shows that you have a sense of humor.

Men like (well, actually, everyone likes) people who can have fun. People who laugh a lot are rated more outgoing and… get this… BETTER LOOKING than those who don’t laugh as much.

We want to be around people who have a sense of humor so use your laugh to attract other fun people into your life.

Hold it right there

We all know the trick that women use when taking a picture - putting your hand on your hip makes your arms look skinnier. You can use this even technique when you’re sitting!

Also when you’re sitting you can sway seductively back and forth.

When you’re standing up, you can put your weight on one side. Standing at a diagonal, with most of your weight on your back leg is definitely sexier than facing someone head on. This alpha female body language move shows that you’re interested, but not all the way invested. And a key to being seductive is to never let the other person think that they have you all the way.

Be a little bouncy

Move around, stick your chest out a bit, sway side to side… be excitable and bounce around a little bit like you’re bouncing on one of those big workout balls. (This technique obviously works well while you’re sitting down.)

If you can’t imagine what I’m talking about, try this: A lot of men really enjoy a certain sexual position where they don’t have to do any work… simulate (in a subtle way) the movements you would use if you were the one doing the work. It drives men wild to see you do these movements innocently during conversation with your clothes on.

TOUCH

I’m not just talking about “touching” him… though I highly recommend that you find ways to touch him a bit if you like him. I’m talking about touching yourself.

Yes, yourself.

While he’s talking or while you’re talking, smooth your shirt. Trace the lines of your body. Play with your hair. Throw it back and forth. Pick imaginary lint off of your body. Fix/adjust your bra strap while you’re engaged in conversation. But be subtle!

Lip-sync

Play with your lips.

Put your finger up to your lip like you would do if you were thinking.

BITE your lip.

Pucker or purse your lips while you’re talking.

Rub your tongue over your lips a bit while there’s a pause in the conversation.

Drawing attention to your lips and your tongue will make him very interested in what else you can do with your mouth. Of course, men find this incredibly intriguing.


Thanks for reading and happy relating~


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