Alpha Female Body Language
by Doris
(Sweden)
A REAL Alpha Female doesn't do anything but love herself and people around her. She does not ever think of her appearance or actions in regards towards others and she will NOT have sex or date just for the fun of it.
She is often reclusive and very selective in her choice of friends. She is not sentimental and is not easily impressed.
DON'T ever flatter her with shallow remarks of her being beautiful or sexy, DON'T brag and DON'T give her presents she didn't ask for. She hates surprises.
A real alpha female prefer to live COMPLETELY alone if she finds people around her sucks the life energy out of her. There are so few REAL Alpha Females around that most have never met one, but when you do you will sense it, even if she doesn't say a word.
One thing is for sure, you don't find her in a bar or club drinking alcohol, dressed in sexy clothes and high heals flirting with men. She will never join a movement or organisation, she DOES what she wants and asks for no support. She is not afraid to go her own way and to do things her own way.
A real alpha is never married. She can live with you for a lifetime but don't try to put a ring on her finger if you want to keep her. Don't take her on guilt trips, don't play the shame game and don't try to scare her if you want to keep her, she will only find you pathetic and leave you. With REAL alpha's, less is more is a good thing to have in mind.
A real ALPHA (male or female)can for a non alpha seem like the Ultimate Boring Person, and it probably is. But they are solid rocks to lean on when it gets real tough in life, don't get clingy, they need space like everybody else, and they don't need you. These people they just live life enjoying every minute, and they don't really think or worry or judge.