Alpha Female + Alpha Male =
Highly Attractive
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Question: What do the terms Alpha Male and Alpha Female mean in dating or love relationships?
Dr. Love:
Ever wonder why you can’t bring yourself to feel chemistry with some guy? No matter how nice he is, no matter how much he is there for you, you just don’t feel him like that? He stays firmly in the Friend Zone … by his lack of creating attraction.
Then there’s the guy who you do feel chemistry with… he’s the one that you can’t help but be drawn to. Even if he treats you like less than the queen that you are, you can’t get him out of your mind. There are many reasons for this, but I’ll focus on the most important.
The reason that you feel attraction for the second guy is because he is more Alpha. An Alpha Male is huge turn-on for us women.
We love his confidence or his swagger, his energy, and how he appeals to our desire for pleasure. He’s cool and laid-back and with him we travel to a place where time means nothing. We are free from responsibility with this guy and get lost in mental and sensual stimulation.
He has personal power and he dominates his environment.
The Alpha Male looks out for himself and won’t allow himself to be controlled.
He isn’t overtly aggressive, but the fact that he is unpredictable lets you know that he could take care of you and protect you.
You never know what he’s going to do next and that excites you, surprises you, and makes you feel like you’re living close to the edge right along with him.
His sex appeal
is born of his masculinity mixed with an emotionality that leads you to wonder if he is inside of your head. He notices the things about you that make you special and his sensitivity and ability to notice details, in turn, makes him special to you.
You are flattered by the push/pull conversation he gives you and the fact that he says what’s on his mind without regret. He makes you wonder if you’re up for the challenge.
You begin to doubt if you can handle him… yet his way with words soothes your mind and leads him to the romantic seduction of your entire body.
If you are in a relationship with another and you encounter an Alpha Male, you can’t help but think about the Alpha… sometimes to the detriment of your relationship. Yep, might as well call in a relationship doctor
, because the appearance of an Alpha Male in your life is enough to make your current relationship flat-line.
You begin to desire Mr. Alpha and consciously or unconsciously compare your man to him. Dominance, confidence, sex appeal, pleasure, and self-respect are the scales you use as you mentally pit one man against the other. The Alpha Male is the one who fuels your passion and makes you want to have sex with him. Immediately. :-)
He may be tall or short. Thin, fat, physically fit. Dreadlocks, crew cut, tight fade, bald head (Mmmm)... He might have deep green eyes, ocean blue eyes, chocolate brown eyes, or piercing black eyes.
His looks have little to do with his presence. You are attracted by the way he carries himself.
The Alpha Male body language is unmistakable.
He is:
- comfortable in his own skin.
- able to invade our personal space in a non-threatening way
- charming and personally magnetic
- able to move and speak without insecurity
These characteristics and behaviors are what makes us ladies go ga-ga over a dude. Because of them, we listen to this person more… we respect him…he’s absolutely irresistible.
Alpha Male qualities are desirable to us women and for that, he is a dangerous breed. He casts a powerful and intoxicating spell over us. Many books, articles and magazines are dedicated to becoming an Alpha Male. The reason is easy: Alpha Males know how to talk to women. They get the girls!
Some of these authors have intelligently decided to take notice of a rising trend. The Alpha Female.
The Alpha Female is everything that the Alpha Male is… she just does it with a feminine flair.
And while most men are concerned with finding a woman/many women (you know, because that’s what men like to do), the Alpha Female is concerned with ALL of her relationships.
She is bathed in the comfort of close friends and when away from the crowds, she loves her solitude because it nourishes her.
The Alpha Female is confident (fearless women rock!) and she asserts herself.
She is not worried about whether or not she comes off as a “bitch”. And whenever she does come off as bitchy, her charm covers the indiscretion.
She has hot sexuality (femininity mixed with strength) and cool conversation. She’s smart and she respects herself, meaning that she loves who she is and takes care of her needs first…she isn’t needy – and that’s a highly desirable trait. The Alpha Female is a force to be reckoned with… she gets what she wants, when SHE wants it.
In order to be Alpha, whether female or male, one has to:
* Develop or boost self-confidence
* Learn how to use his or her personal power
* Revel in their femininity or masculinity, and have a hint of the opposite traits
* Pursue pleasure and provide entertainment value
and
* Learn to be more selfish (or self-mindful).
Being an Alpha Female or Alpha Male means that you take care of the most important individual in your life first…YOU. My aim is to show you how to get more of what you want by becoming more of who you are, minus the bothersome insecurities and unattractive behaviors.
By being aware of yourself and your own behaviors you will be able to apply techniques to aid in the seduction of women, men, and virtually everyone you meet!
In order to attract you have to BE attractive.
Be more attractive by boosting your self-esteem and self-confidence. I decided to offer free love advice and self-esteem tips because I know it will help you get more of what you want in relationships.
The keys to seduction lie in your ability to build your self-esteem to a point where you can attract and keep relationships that work for you. You can create sizzling chemistry with almost anyone by simply becoming aware of yourself.
I stumbled across a great site that I would like to share as a resource for you called Understanding Beautiful Women and this link specifically talks about valuing yourself. If you want to read more about building your self image, check out www.understanding-beautiful-women.com! It's a great start!
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