The Alpha Male and Alpha Female
Two Peas in a Pod or Battling Bedmates?
Are the Alpha Male and Alpha Female a Perfect Match? My answer to that question is a resounding Hell-to-the-YES!
I first stumbled upon “the alpha male alpha female relationship” question while dating a sexy Alpha Male.
He was very much into Ayn Rand (*surprise* ...not.) and he let me read some of her quotes. Many of Rand's quotes are my favorites to this day, but this one especially sticks out when referring to Alpha Male and Alpha Female relationships:
"A man's sexual choice is the result and the sum of his fundamental convictions.... He will always be attracted to the woman who reflects his deepest vision of himself, the woman whose surrender permits him to experience a sense of self-esteem. The man who is proudly certain of his own value, will want the highest type of woman he can find, the woman he admires, the strongest, the hardest to conquer--because only the possession of a heroine will give him the sense of an achievement."
Ayn Rand (Atlas Shrugged)
What Ayn Rand is describing is only relevant for real Alpha Men. I am not talking about fake wanna-be thugs, or mega-meatheads who are really insecure little bitches on the inside. I am talking about confident, ambitious, attractive men who are on top of their game in work, relationships and life in general. These men fall for women who are like themselves. Think about it... like attracts like. Men who are considered a “catch” get bored very easily by women who offer them no mental stimulation… no challenge. A man like this has women throwing themselves at him, offering to do everything for him, and hoping to snag a ring and a few babies by him. But he’ll never FEEL real feelings for women who do this.
Mr. Alpha Male wants, dreams about, and is only
satisfied by Ms. Alpha Female
Alpha Males desire women who are a challenge. They also want women who are clever, slightly dangerous, interesting, attractive, and ambitious (as he is).
Alpha Males have reached a certain stage in their lives where they are “self-actualizing”. What this means is that Mr. Alpha is sure of himself, proud of himself, and constantly striving for the best for himself. Thus Alpha Male and Alpha Female relationships work very well. The Alpha Female gives the Alpha Male the excitement that he enjoys in every other aspect of his life. So women, if you want to snag the Alpha Male, Alpha Female behavior is the only way to go. And fellas, you must understand that a woman is turned on by men who are more dominant than she is. Since women have been becoming more and more dominant in general, you need to work on and exert your dominance in order to attract hot, intelligent, confident, women in your life.
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If you haven’t listened to my audio series, Inside a Man’s Mind, it probably comes as a shock to you that Alpha Males and Alpha Females are a PERFECT match. For a year, I interviewed over 40 men and asked them what they want/find sexy in a woman. I took the 10 most dominant, attractive, Alpha men and put their audios into a package. In the audios, my sexy Alpha Male friends ALL describe the supremely confident, independent, witty, edgy, Alpha Female goddess. Of course, they don’t call her that… but they DO all dream about her. An Alpha Male dreams about the sexy Alpha Woman that is his equal in every way. He wants the girl who is on his level… the woman who has her sh!t together… the woman whose “surrender permits him to experience a sense of self-esteem.” This woman is not the type who’s giving it up to every man or waiting around for that one man in hopes of getting a diamond. She is the one who is buying her own diamonds --- with cash that she earned through the strength of her OWN personal power.
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Alpha Male and Alpha Female
As an Alpha Female, I have had the pleasure of relating with quite a few Alpha Males. I attract them relatively easily. My admittedly super-long must-have list stops me from dating Beta Males as they can’t keep up the challenging (mental) foreplay. See, Alpha Male Alpha Female relationships start with challenging, fun, playful conversations. These two feed off of each other and keep the game fun. (When I say “the game”, I mean the “dating game”. And the dating game is all about SEX.)
Since Alphas can generally have sex with pretty much anyone they desire, the person who keeps them interested is someone who continues to be interesting and attractive after sex has taken place. Sexy Alpha Males / Alpha Females have no problem not only catching someone, but keeping them. Since alphas have depth and a personal style that hints at the freedom that so many people crave, they make others WANT to commit to them. They keep their mates spellbound for months, years, or decades. Of course, sometimes the egos of these two can get in the way, but overall Alpha Male and Alpha Female relationships are based on respect and are deeply satisfying for both parties. Thanks for reading and happy relating~
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