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Alpha Male Attraction: Seduction Tips for Women
Alpha Male / Alpha Female Relationships: This one is for you ladies who are on the verge of alpha female status and are ready for alpha male attraction tips.
It's sad to say this, but as you reach alpha female status, a normal "nice guy" just won't do. He provides no challenge for you and bores you to tears.
Reminder: An Alpha Female is...
- Confident and sure of herself (not arrogant) while keeping the innocence that comes with enjoying the moment and having fun,
- Sophisticated, intelligent and wise through experience,
- Overtly sexy (classy, not slutty) and flirty/witty,
- Ambitious and consciously pursuing goals set for Self,
- and true to herself and her values - actually knows her values and sings her own song.
By the time your "inner" is working in flow and you are BEING an Alpha Female all the time, you get plenty of attention from guys. The Beta Male is no longer an option for you because he is not a match to you - and in this attraction based universe - like attracts like. You, dear Alpha Goddess, radiate a beauty that many women can't comprehend...and you don't need to add another "man" to the list of people who get sporadic call backs and smiles of pity.
You're done with "Any male" attraction and now want Alpha Male attraction... you understand that only the Alpha Male can stir up desire in you and allow you to fully experience your femininity.
I have had success with attracting and keeping Alpha Males interested over long periods of time. It really isn't that hard, but you should prepare yourself for the ride of your life. The passion and intimacy revealed in that relationship is not for the faint-hearted. You will experience all parts of yourself... you will have to deal with issues connected to being a "Woman"... beginning in childhood. Every relationship we have with our equal (the Alpha Male) will bring about deep questioning of ourselves. It's a devilishly divine road if you're up for it. Highly intense.
But you came here for Alpha Male attraction... how to get with Alpha Males... how to keep them... what makes them tick. I will share a few ways you can do this, but keep in mind, if you're a true Alpha Female, this will all seem very natural to you.
1. Be HOT.
There is a difference between being "cute" and being "HOT". The Hot Girl is not afraid of her sexuality; in fact, she uses it... it's a part of her. She wears clothes, makeup and accessories which accentuate all of her best features. She has interesting conversation and can verbally spar with a guy. She flirts a bit, bites her lip a bit, smiles a lot, and has fun. She is a beautiful woman and a sexy girl all at the same time.
2. Be yourself.
...unless, of course, yourself sucks. (Kidding! :)) By being yourself, your honest true self, you become highly attractive to EVERYONE. You also become the perfect match to the man who is completely himself - the Alpha Male. Authenticity is a key ingredient in seduction. He uses it; you should, too.
3. Be friendly.
The Alpha Male wants a hot woman who is also nice (but not a doormat). Many beautiful -on the outside- women are complete bitches and terrible to deal with. The Alpha Male has no time to chase a beautiful woman who throws fits and tantrums or acts like a snob around his friends. Alpha Male attraction consists of you being like a buddy to him (friendly), yet a woman who makes him horny (sexy).
4. Be unconcerned with outcomes.
One of the biggest things that turns men off is a woman who is seeking a ring from ANY guy. She just wants to get married - to be the awesome Bride instead of the stupid-dress-wearing bridesmaid. She dreams of her wedding and her babies which follow. What a turn-off!!! Be the girl who doesn't care about marriage. Be the girl who is only willing to stay in a relationship as long as it suits her. Be the girl who realizes that she's a prize and that no idiotic piece of jewelry could make her stay in a relationship which causes her pain or stunts her growth. Do not be concerned with "Where is this going?" Be concerned with "Am I happy and growing while relating with this man?" Only then will you project the independence and energy that matches that of an Alpha Male.
5. Be sexual, but don't give yourself away quickly.
Sex is fun. With someone you love, respect and admire, it can be downright spiritual. And the play, the dance, the seduction before it, makes you get to know the other in incredible ways. Do you remember middle school and high school crushes? Remember how long it took to "round those bases" back then? Give yourself the gift of a playful, sexually-charged relationship, while patiently waiting for "the big moment". You can do some pretty fun and kinky things in the months (Yes, MONTHS!) before the actual "sex" happens... and you'll get to know one another at a "Soul" level... which the Alpha Male craves since he doesn't get it from women who throw themselves at him quickly. Respect yourself and he will respect you.
There are many more ways to create Alpha Male attraction. Maybe I'll revisit this subject at a later date. Remember that when you First Love You, everything else falls into place. Thanks for reading!
Happy Relating~
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