Women Love Alpha Male Behavior
Part Two
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Oh, you're back? I was hoping that I wasn't being too harsh before, but I am trying to help you rid yourself of unattractive Beta Male behaviors so that you can attract the women you want. K, Sweetie... let's get started.
Here's your homework assignment.
Go to the store this week and buy yourself a nice outfit. For help... ask the salesWOMAN there what makes you look good. Tell her that you are going out and you want to feel and look sexy.
Have HER find you the SEXIEST outfit you can afford. Usually it only takes one good piece of clothing to make you look HOT. It could be a jacket over a white tee and jeans or a perfect shirt that you can wear with khakis... It doesn't matter what piece looks like... it just has to make you FEEL GOOD in it.
That's the whole idea... it's not about your clothes, it's about how you feel when you're wearing them. That encourages your natural Alpha Male behavior to come shining through... Got it?
Get your game face on and go to a bar or club this weekend. Survey the room.... not your normal survey... you're on a mission. It's crunch time, baby.
I know most guys use a rating scale, with 1 being Aunt Esther and 10 being Angelina Jolie... so here's what I want you to do... actively search for girls in the 4-6 range.
Do not... I repeat... DO NOT... approach, look at, make eye-contact with...dance near an 8, 9, or 10. You are looking to game any girl in the 4-6 range.... someone who you would bang completely sober, without it being absolutely pitch black in the room, but not someone who you would gladly show off to everyone. You're not ready for the big leagues yet, Slugger. Go for the minor league 4-6's.
*Sidenote* Women... please don't get mad at me if you are in the 4-6 range... what I'm telling the guys will help you out, too. I know you're looking for a nice guy who won't d*ck you over, but trust me, there are many of them... you'll be fine. And if you want to get out of the 4-6 range, call me, and I'll give you an attitude-and-self-image makeover... because ANY woman can become at least an 8 (on a guy's scale) if you want. It takes a lot of HARD work, however, it CAN be done. Exhibiting Alpha Female behavior is quite similar to showing Alpha Male behavior... But I'll save that for another another lesson.) *End Sidenote*
K, Mr. Nice Guy... have you found a few women in the 4-6 range? The number we're looking for is about 5 girls. Okay, now you're all set.
Next step...
Go up to every single one of them,
look them right in the eye,
then smile,
say "hi",
then walk away.
Do not look back.
Got that?
The whole interaction should take less than 5 seconds for each girl. 5 seconds, Mr. Nice Guy!
Next...
Walk to the bathroom.
Wash your hands and look at yourself in the mirror. Admire your new outfit/piece/accessory, whatever. Tell yourself that you are a sexy MAN. Look right into your eyes in the mirror and think it. I AM A SEXY MAN! woot woot~ Know that it's not necessarily an Alpha Male behavior to talk to yourself in public restrooms, but just go with it.
Now confidently walk out of the bathroom. Head up, shoulders back. Posture is super-important!
Survey the room again. Find your targets. Then one by one, walk over to them and repeat the "Hi" routine. This time, with a little more bass in your voice and brushing past them a bit.
You can softly touch her arm or her side. Or you can gently bump her as you walk by. But this time, smile after you say "hi". And again... walk away within 5 seconds. If you want, you can look back at them this time as you walk away.
Go up to the bar and either stand there or sit down. Back straight, chin up, head high. Remember, YOU ARE THE SH!T.
Try to chat up the bartender if you can or join in on a conversation with other patrons. Neither of these acts are a necessity though.
Next...
After about 5 minutes, go back to each one of the girls and simply stand near her (not looking at her) until she notices you. Near = about 3 feet away. If one of your targets doesn't respond within 1 minute, move to the next one. But the chances of having one talk to you are very high.
When she talks to you, be nice... you're good at that, remember? Though, along with having a nice conversation, make sure you
1) Do not ask her name. If she offers it, fine, just don't ask.
2) Make her lean in to talk to you... Do not lean in. Stand tall, chin up, back straight, head high, with your body pointing away from her, about 45-75 degrees.
2a) Better yet, lead her to a place where you can talk to/hear her better. Say "Let's go over here", and DIRECT her a few feet away or across the room by either offering your arm (for her to grab) or gently guiding her by her forearm to where you want her to go. (She's learning to take direction from you from the start. Good.)
3) Do not compliment her... unless it's about something VERY specific. Her laugh, her shoes, her hair tie - steer clear of the "You're pretty" or "You look good" comments.
4) Do not offer to buy her a drink.
5) Smile and say something funny!
6) Be brief.
Within 5 minutes, tell her to put her number into your cell phone... this should be done before the conversation really gets going.
"Hey, put your number in my cell phone so I can call you later." NOT "Can I have your number?" or "May I please call you sometime?"... Gag gag gag VOMIT puke YUCK. Be a man and tell her what to do. Remember, Alpha Male behavior.
Look her right in the eye. Smile.
After you get the number, tell her you'll talk to her later and move on to the next girl.
By the end of the night, you should have at least 3 phone numbers of 3 girls who you have built sexual attraction with! And some of them may have seen you talking to other girls! That makes you incredibly hot. This is great! Yay you!!! Back pats and all that.
Now... it's time for seduction practice...
Next, you have to know what to do with those phone numbers. Tune in for lesson 2... Sexual Seduction. You now have a few women to call when you need an ego boost before that hot date with the 9 or 10 you're going to be scoring soon. Go Mr. Nice Guy!
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