Women Love Alpha Male Behavior
Dear Mr. Beta Male,
Stop being unattractive and show some alpha male behavior. Please make me desire you... I'm begging for it.
See, the thing is that I want you... I do... logically, intellectually, I want someone like you who will treat me nicely. You are exactly who I want to be with... The problem is that I, along with women everywhere, am EMOTIONAL - not rational, when it comes to dating and relating.
That means it's up to you to make us FEEL powerfully, intoxicating-ly attracted to you or else you're going to spend your nights stroking your own c*ck. For real. :-)
You will attract women when you stop being the beta male. You're so much more than that anyway!
You wonder why women gravitate towards the 'bad boy'... that dude who uses us and abuses us... the one who treats us like less than the queens that we are? Do you really think it's because all women are simply insecure and don't think we deserve more?
No, Silly. That's not the reason for all of us. Some of us are quite secure in ourselves... Though we are attracted to the 'bad boy' in a very primal, all-encompassing way because HE CREATES the attraction! He uses his personal power to attract women. How, you ask?
Here it is: Alpha Male Behavior...
A mix of fun, excitement, charm, and masculinity wrapped in unbridled sexuality, topped off with a sense of independence, self-respect, and self-confidence.
Read it again. Let it roll around in your head for a minute.
Now think about the men who openly display Alpha Male behavior. THEY ARE NOT all good-looking, tall, with loads of money - what most men *think* women want.
Think about Tom Cruise. He's 5'6". If he were not a movie star, most women would completely rule him out on height alone. But he has confidence and charm. By exhibiting Alpha Male behavior, instead of being insecure, he becomes desirable.
What about Johnny Depp? He respects himself so much that he won't take roles that he doesn't like... even if they are money makers. He is masculine and has sex appeal.
And I know what you're thinking...
These men are VERY good-looking. What about guys who aren't naturally gorgeous... they can't attract women.
Remember - It's not about what a woman sees, it's about how you make her FEEL. When you display Alpha Male behaviors, she feels powerfully attracted to you.
Have you ever seen Ike Turner? I mean, the real one? You really think that Tina Turner would have stayed with Ike, getting her ass beat constantly, if during off-ass-beat time she didn't get the rush of excitement and pleasure from her man? Hell naw! She would have bounced if the good times didn't outweigh the bad. So would a lot of abused women.
But the truth is, this kind of guy creates so much pleasure at INSTINCTUAL levels for women. A guy, no matter his physical or financial status, abusive tendencies, or mental illness, who has the above qualities, can attract women.
Any and every woman has succumbed to a relationship with the 'bad boy', because it FEELS SOOOO GOOD! The "bad boy" is not afraid to show his Alpha Male behaviors and to women, that's a break from the norm.
When you meet a hot woman who actually has her sh*t together and she keeps attracting guys who are less than she deserves, think about it this way...She has guys falling all over her... all day, every day... and it's happened probably since she started puberty.
This one tells her that she's beautiful, then follows her around like a puppy...
This one tells her that he's never met anyone like her, then
buys inappropriate gifts or calls her all the time.
This one fidgets or has body language that screams I FEEL UNCOMFORTABLE AROUND YOU BECAUSE YOU'RE SO INCREDIBLE!
And yet another one doesn't think he deserves her, so he stays firmly planted in the friend-zone instead of working on seducing her... he's there for her like a rock, picking her up from the airport after she spends a weekend visiting the 'jerk' who makes her nipples sing and her clit dance.
You can imagine that after she meets guy after guy like this, beta male after beta male, it gets a little *yaaaaaawwwnnn* boring...
So what does this hot, real woman really want?
To have fun! To have a man who acts like a MAN! To have an equal or stronger partner, preferably a guy who can protect her.
And... wait for it............................
To get her freakin' back blown out by a man who has created so much sexual tension that she is the one who is actually pursuing sex with him!! He doesn’t even have to be a superstar in bed! Her EMOTIONS will make her think he’s a GOD!
The catch is that she knows that she shouldn't fall for this dude... because he is probably like all the other bad boys, an insecure little bitch with control issues and a wandering d*ck... but that doesn't matter. When he creates this type of attraction, displaying alpha male behavior,
funny, charming, confident, in control, unpredictable,
she feels LUST for him at VERY DEEP LEVELS. And lust may not be love, but since it comes from the BODY and not the emotions, it is just as POWERFUL a motivator as love.
Lust makes her buy new panties to wear just for you. Lust makes her call YOU for a booty call and return your text messages quickly. Love may make the world go 'round, but lust makes it a much more exciting ride!
Have you heard that Mariah Carey song "Touch my body"?
Women are just as sexual, if not more sexual than men! ...ours is simply a softer, more sensual sexuality... but it's still SEXUAL.
We want it!
We think about it as much as you do.
We want to be a little slut for you... sucking and f*cking you until you can't take it anymore.
We want to let go of all of our inhibitions and really get down and dirty with you... screaming your name, rubbing our bodies all over you, all that!
We want to be your naughty girl dammit and we want to GET OFF!
But you, Mr. Beta Male, have not learned how to get us to that point. You fall short on creating passionate situations because you haven't learned how to be sexually attractive. You haven't learned how to exhibit Alpha Male behavior.
And I hear you... you don't want to change who you are.
You brush off doing the hard work by saying, "Jerks get all the girls".
"I can't attract women because they don't want a nice guy."
"Why can't they just like me for me?"
*Weep weep weep, sad face, whine whine, cry.*
You can't go into it with that mind-set. Look at yourself and ask this question "Would I want to f*ck me?"
Yeah, you may think you have skills... from all those nights you've sat at home kissing or grinding on your pillow, or practiced p*ssy-licking on a piece of fruit... but just how many women have you seduced?
How many women have you got to try your precious skills on? 1? 4? 7?
Listen, Mr. Beta Male... I'm gonna let you in on a little secret.
Practice makes perfect.
Let me type that again in all caps so that you get it.
PRACTICE MAKES PERFECT.
"Well, *weep weep, whine whine*, how am I going to get practice if good-looking, cool women won't give me the time of day?"
Ugh!
Women WILL give you the time of day - when you show your alpha male behavior.
You have to go out looking for women to practice your new mind-set with! And believe me, we're everywhere. Problem is, you're not looking for practice. Your mind is set on finding that hot chick you can make into your girlfriend and eventually your wifey. Or you're looking for that one night stand - and are not able to hide your intentions because you give off a needy vibe.
Boo on you.
Think about it... A hot chick, one who has her head on straight, and is about something, is probably using YOU, a beta male, as practice... all because you haven't shown her your Alpha Male behavior. She may not come out and say it, because she doesn't realize she's doing it, but she is.
"Hmmm, this nice guy asked me out so I *guess* I'll go with him... I'll be all girly and cute for the evening with him, allow him to fawn all over me and boost my ego, then run go over this other guy's house (the one who displays Alpha Male behavior) to get d*cked down afterwards". A perfect night.
You won't use people for practice (all the while offering them loads of pleasure) because... yep, you guessed it... you're too nice! Sad, sad, sad.
Okay, are you ready to stop being a Beta Male and learn how to show your Alpha Male behavior?
Are you ready to take your c0ck out of your own hand and find out how to make women want you? I'll wait until you pull up your pants. :-)
First, read my Seduction A-Z Guide.
Then, read it again.
After you've done that, come back to me, sweetie... for some tips on how to show your alpha male behavior.
Sincerely,
Bad Girl Bianca
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