Goodnight Kiss: Beta Male First Date Mistake

The end of the first date approaches and you lean in to give her a goodnight kiss and... DENIED!

What? Why? You thought she was feeling you. Where did you go wrong?

I have gone out on dates with many guys. From these experiences I can tell you that the men who I thought were "sexy" as opposed to "nice", took it upon themselves to kiss me before the end of the date.

If you kiss a woman as early as you possibly can on the first date you will virtually ensure that you achieve Alpha status in her mind.

What sets Alpha Males apart from other guys is that they lack nervousness. This element of fearlessness makes almost any woman excited. Alpha Male behavior is bold and uninhibited. These men make (and a lot of times 'break') rules.

An Alpha would never wait until the end of the date for a kiss because that shows an unwillingness to do his own thing. Who made up that rule anyway? A “goodnight” kiss? What are we, four? (ha!) Italians kiss ‘hello’ and they are known for being great lovers. There's a bit of truth in every stereotype...take a lesson. :-)

When you’re on a date with a girl you like, kiss her whenever the mood strikes you... as long as you both are playfully enjoying yourselves, your kiss will be a natural progression.

It will also accomplish a few things:

1. You break the ice. That way you’re not waiting until the end of the night wondering “will she” or “won’t she”... you get self-confidence this way, too, because you will feel her interest level. If the kisses continue, you will KNOW that she is interested.

2. You bond quicker… especially if you are a good kisser.

3. You open her up to kissing you.

I don’t understand why more guys don’t do this. The absolute best date I ever went on was with an Alpha who kissed me within the first hour. It started off as just a peck here and there, but before the night was over, I was the one initiating long sensual kisses. We both were soooo satisfied. ;-)

Do yourself a favor and get the so-called "goodnight kiss" out of the way early. The girl will appreciate your boldness and you will take the date into new directions.

Happy Relating~