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How To Be Sexy
How to Be Sexy: Tips from a Sexy Alpha Female What is sexy anyway? Good ol’ Webster defines “sexy” as:
Sexually interesting or exciting; radiating sexuality
and
Arousing or tending to arouse sexual desire or interest.
But these definitions don’t give you a clue as to how to be sexy.
Don’t worry, your girl has your back. Allow me show how it’s done. 
I went to a party last weekend at my best friend’s house. After the party, he told me something that I always love to hear.
Him: You know, you really are a Siren.
Me: Oh really?
Him: Yeah, like I saw it with my own eyes! You OOZE sex.
Me: I told ya. (giggle)
Him: (laugh) I’m serious… you had 3 guys and 1 GIRL drooling over you. They all wanted you. Even my own brother!
This was not the first time that I have been told that I “ooze” sex... and it’s so a part of me that I’m sure I’ll be told again. See, as an Alpha Female, I have perfected the art of being sexy. I know exactly which behaviors and gestures to use to cause a stir in someone’s pelvic region.
I practiced, rehearsed, perfected, and then adopted the “right” behaviors... ones that attract... even members of my own gender. lol I’m not the best looking girl, but I’m definitely the SEXIEST one around. You’ve gotta work with what you’ve got... we’re not all born 10’s... but some of us make up for it with sex appeal.
So what is sexy?
It’s a walking contradiction.
It’s a loaded gaze that is held for a little too long.
It’s a coy and suggestive smile.
…Or the way a person glides across a room.
It’s playful and witty communication.
It’s inner contentment.
It’s an aura.
It’s a presence.
And it’s so freakin’ powerful.
For those people who develop sex appeal, the world is so much more fun. So you want to know how to be sexy?
How to be sexy: The Alpha Female
1. Learn how to dress for men.
If you look at yourself in the mirror and say “I look good”, CHANGE your clothes until you can say “I look hot”. Stop dressing for other women! Why wear a sweater and jeans when you can wear a dress with heels?
I dress for men and it gets me everything I want. I have nice cleavage and fabulous legs and you better believe I show them off... with class. You don’t want to look like a hooker, but you DO want to allude to your femininity and sexuality. You have to be sexy in your own eyes or else no one will get that vibe from you.
2. Find your biggest contradictions and work them.
Think Marilyn Monroe. A sexy little girl.
I am shy and confident. That’s my contradiction. I have no problem talking to crowds of people (I am a speaker for a living), yet at the same time, I move and gesture in a way that is vulnerable. I cover my mouth after speaking sometimes… I look away... I trip over my words a bit. I’m awkward, but at the same time deeply confident about how I look, my intelligence, and my personal achievements. This comes off as a glaring contradiction... and it is intensely sexually exciting.
3. Take care of yourself first.
Yeah, I know... people tell you that all the time. But it’s absolutely the truth. Refuse to put yourself down. Refuse to talk to yourself in a criticizing tone. Refuse to disrupt your peace of mind with negative thinking and negative situations.
Take care of your body. Yes, work out and eat right. You will feel better about yourself because your health is one thing you have a lot of control over.
Take care of your mind. Stop engaging in mindless activities. Your brain is like a muscle. It needs to be used. Read something. Experience something. Learn something!
Take care of your relationships… both with others and yourself. Relate ONLY with those people who enhance your life in some way. If they don’t, cut them off. And your relationship with YOU is the most important. Treat yourself lovingly. Give yourself time to relax, refresh and renew. Allow yourself to daydream. This will build self-love and that alone is soooo sexy.
4. Exercise your sense of humor (but not self-deprecatingly).
Laugh at least 5 times a day. Laugh at things that “should” be serious. When you laugh, you draw people to you. It’s almost like the endorphins are contagious. Having a sense of humor is sexy as hell.
5. Get in touch with yourself sexually.
Yep, masturbate and enjoy your body. I love sex. I sell Pure Romance so obviously I have no problem with being sexual. lol A woman who enjoys herself sexually is like a MAGNET. I think it’s the pheromones or something. :) Whatever it is, I know that it gets noticed.
6. Flirt. With. Everyone.
Guys, girls, waiters, mechanics, old ladies crossing the street. Be flirtatious. Make it a part of your personality. And if you don’t know how, go to top-flirting-tips.com
How to be sexy: The Alpha Male
1. Buy some good cologne.
I can’t stress this enough, but your sexual scent is the most important part of learning how to be sexy.
2. Let women know that you are attracted to them sexually...
that you DESIRE us (want to bang the sh!t out of us and would do it in a heartbeat if you got the chance)! This is so important if you want to stay out of the Friend Zone. You make women aroused when you act like you want them.
3. Have a life of your own.
...A rich fulfilling life that you invite others into. Be completely comfortable and content with all of your relationships.
4. Be masculine.
Think James Bond… or Simon Cowell and mix it with something else. Masculine geek. Masculine violinist. Masculine playwright. Mix masculinity with something a tad softer.
5. STARE into peoples’ eyes.
Don’t hold back… especially after you say something that you really mean.
6. Head up, shoulders back, good posture, no fidgeting.
7. Say what you think, want, feel, and need.
Disagree with people if necessary. Stand up for yourself. Decide that your opinions matter and then express them. Be completely, unashamedly unpredictable.
8. Find your best quality and show it... all the time.
If you have strong shoulders, show them in a nicely tailored jacket. If you have a beautiful mind, talk about what you dream about. Work whatever you’ve got.
Learn how to be sexy and you will literally have everything you ever wanted and more.
Thanks for reading and happy relating!
~Tiffany
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3.Alpha Female or Alpha Bitch?
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