I left my husband the wrong way!

by Shayla
(Columbia, SC)

I especially like the 3rd DON'T on your list. You hit the nail right on the head! When I was younger I always wanted to get married. I married the first guy who asked me. Then I figured out that I never really loved him. I told him that I didn't want to be with him anymore and he was very sad and did everything he could to get me back. I watched him cry and held his hand and hugged him. I listened to him every night when he called and begged me not to leave. I put myself through misery. Never again! Every other relationship after that, I always STOPPED talking to the person. No matter what they did or said, I didn't let them affect me. That's the only way to break up. Nice site btw.