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How To Stop Making Mistakes
When Approaching Women
Part 2
Avoid Making Mistakes
To read part one of this article, please click here.
3. Assume nothing.
Just because she’s hot, it doesn’t mean that she has a boyfriend! Don’t say things like, “Mmm, you look good… you must have a man, don’t you?” or another variation “Your husband is a lucky guy!”
MISTAKE!
Why even bring up another man? …Especially if you don’t know if she has one. You want her to be thinking about YOU, not someone else. Why divert attention? Even if she’s not single, she could be on the verge of it. Relationships are always in flux. Use that fact to your advantage.
Also, don’t assume that a really hot girl wouldn’t want YOU. If you’re cool and can keep her interested, why wouldn’t she want you?
You can never be sure of anything, so assume nothing.
4. Keep your wallet on lock-down.
In a bar, do NOT buy a drink for a woman without engaging her in conversation first.
Decide during the conversation whether she’s worth buying a drink. You work hard for your money… why give it away to strangers?
Some women go out looking for suckers who will buy drinks for them.
A sucker = Someone who will gladly open his wallet because he thinks that will score him some brownie points or get him phone numbers/dates/sex.
Even though most women do not intentionally look for men to buy them drinks at the bar, there are some that do. Don’t be an easy mark for gold-diggers. Save your money for actual dating activities AFTER you’ve established rapport.
5. The more you fail, the more you succeed.
Even the successful 10% of men still get rejected. Know this going into it. The more times you try to talk to women, the more you will get rejected. It makes sense then to talk to as many women as you possibly can. Not only will this give you practice, but it will also allow you to taste more success!
“We keep going back, stronger, not weaker, because we will not allow rejection to beat us down. It will only strengthen our resolve. To be successful there is no other way.“
Earl G. Graves
Kill your self-doubt, fear of rejection, and laziness. If you don’t approach, you won’t get women.
The more you approach, the more confidence you gain…
The better you get at noticing non-verbal cues, the more comfortable you get with different forms of communicating…
The more times you try, the more success (and rejection) you will have…
It’s all a part of the game. Play to win. :-)
Happy Relating Fellas~
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