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How To Stop Making Mistakes
When Approaching Women
How To Stop Making Mistakes When You Approach Women
Are you tired of women giving you the run around?
Tired of calling, leaving messages, sending texts or emails, and not getting a reply?
Do you wonder what you said that
made her pull a fade-away on you?
Well, I’m going to let you know exactly what phrases/behaviors scream ‘LOW VALUE’ to a woman and how a simple change in your mind-set can cause women to chase YOU.
Every day some man approaches me and completely fails to create any attraction. He may be driving an expensive car, wearing fashionable clothes, and have a great job, but none of that matters if he can’t reach a woman on an emotional level.
Follow these simple steps to stop making mistakes, so that you will have much greater success approaching (hot) women and getting them interested in you. :)
1. Realize that attractive women are just like other women.
Why is it that men, even the most masculine men, turn into complete weenies when talking to an attractive woman? Simple answer: Because they place too much value on her looks. I see 90% of men making mistakes like this all the time.
Just because a woman is attractive, it doesn’t mean that she is automatically right for YOU. She just happens to be blessed with good looks… When you put a good-looking woman on a pedestal you place yourself beneath her. That’s not a good place to be (in this situation). :-)
A woman does not want a man to be lower than her… she wants to look up to him because he is the MAN.
Make women qualify themselves to YOU… in fact, when you see an attractive woman, LOOK for what’s WRONG with her. Oh, believe me, there’s always something lurking right behind that gorgeous exterior.
If you’re focusing your attention on finding her flaws, you won’t be so consumed by her looks. Plus, pointing out those flaws will give you a great conversation topic.
Think about it: An attractive woman has been told since childhood how beautiful she is… if you burst her bubble in some way you stand out from everyone else who fawns all over her. The hotter the girl, the more she will appreciate this break from the norm... Be the one who gives it to her.
2. Note your body language when talking to a woman (and hers as well).
Body language is incredibly important. You communicate so much about your emotional state even before you open your mouth!
Have you ever had a salesperson pressure you? You can FEEL how much they want you to buy. It causes resistance in you. You feel defensive and are not sure why.
Intentions come out through non-verbal cues, and women are masters at picking up on not only your emotions, but your intentions. Keep them in check by learning the art of projecting confidence through body language.
Women are generally more in-tune with emotions and intuition. If you’re thinking it, she senses it.
A woman can tell if you’re hesitant about walking up to her. A woman can also tell if you feel comfortable or nervous talking to her.
Some women can even sense the precise moment that you’re going to ask for her phone number or ask her out. You say it with your body before the words leave your lips.
To understand how important body language is, look it up online or pick up a book from the library (don’t worry – it’s mostly pictures. ha! ). Bodily movements (especially the arms, hands, legs, and feet) indicate anything from excitement to anger, to wanting to get away.
After you’ve read up on it, start watching people as they converse. Notice when others slouch, touch their faces, cross their arms, etc. Notice who leans in more during interactions. (Leaning in is a sign of interest.) Notice people who gesture with their hands… and HOW they gesture.
It’s all so interesting. Once you get good at reading non-verbal cues you’ll be able to tell what people are talking about from a distance.
You’ll be able know if a woman is *really* interested or just faking the funk. You’ll know if you are keeping your emotions to yourself or sending a loud, clear, message (because your thoughts and feelings are directing your body). You’ll also be one step closer to understanding how attraction works when you speak “Womanese”. ;-)
Making Mistakes When Approaching Women continued on page two. Click Here
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