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How to Seduce a Man Part 2
To read Part 1 (the first 5 free seduction tips)
How to Seduce a Man, click here.
How to Seduce a Man: Be a Sexy Alpha Female
7. Have fun all the time and enjoy your life!
Men want to be taken away from their problems. Do not BE the problem.
- Shelley hates her job. She can't stand her apartment. She got dumped last year and thinks all men are dogs (though she still dates them).
- Stacey LOVES her job. Her home is decorated the way she wants it. And even though she got dumped last year, she's taken the lessons, moved on from the break-up, and surrounded herself with wonderful, loving friends.
Who would you rather spend time with? No brainer, right? :)
Be like Stacey... so thrilled with life that you radiate excitement and energy! Loving yourself will not only seduce a man, it will be attractive to everyone you meet! Self-love gives off a sexy vibe; so fall in love with your life first and you will be a fun woman who men want to be around.
8. When it comes to the physical, move a little slower than he wants (but do eventually surrender to him. ;-) )
For instance, if you're making out on the couch, take two steps forward and then one step back. Kiss for awhile and then gently break away, rock your hips a little bit as you stand up, and look at him like you are soooo turned on (even better if you are. :) ) Then walk away and change the subject. After a few minutes, walk back and make out harder than before. This will drive him crazy! The buildup makes the release so much sweeter.
[NOTE]Being a 'tease' or 'playing hard to get' is a throwback to that book on dating called "The Rules". Don't follow those manipulative rules designed to attract unhealthy jerk-type men. Not only do you send out mixed messages to healthy men, but you send out huge "Come Get Me/Hurt Me" signs to those losers who are only interested in the chase. Better to just be honest, with a bit of mystery. Though you could choose to be dishonest in seduction, it's simply not the way to go. Seduction is about providing pleasure and dishonesty is not pleasurable.[END NOTE]
9. Enjoy sex!
Seriously, there's nothing else to say... it does a body good. :)
10. Stand up for yourself... but don't be a drama queen/whiny/preachy/nag.
Men cannot stand your overflow of emotion, so don't let it get there. Don't pout, sulk, whine, cry, call to yell at him, blah blah blah.
The effect it has on him is "Ahhh, get me AWAY from this emotional situation". He will pull away from you.
If he ticks you off or disrespects you, let him have it quickly, rationally, and sternly. If you are too bubbled over with emotion to be reasonable, then walk away (or have no contact with him) until you are ready to come back and be calm. At that point, let him know that you will not tolerate "xyz" and not to do it again.
A woman who can hold her own, and not be an emotional wreck, is highly attractive... seduce a man by keeping your emotions in check.
11. If you've got skills, cook for him.
Mm, Mmm, MMMM, nothing can keep a man away from a strong Alpha Female who can throw down in the kitchen. Don't cook for him all the time... the novelty of it will soon wear off. Do cook for him on special occasions and/or because he's been extra nice to you.
And when you cook that meal, put your heart in it... for some reason this makes your special dish that much more delicious and easier to seduce a man.
Send me a message (info@firstloveyou.com) if you want my "Make A Man Feel Like A Man" Pot Roast recipe. :)
Happy Relating, you Sexy Alpha Female~ ;-)
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