Take the Lead

Women don’t want to have to make a decision. You're the man, take the lead.

Please, don’t ask these questions:

“Where do you want to go?”
“What day would you like to hang out?”
“What time should I pick you up?”

Boo. Boo. Boo.
You’re the guy… you make the decision. An Alpha Male, who women have instinctive, gut level attraction for, would never ask where a woman wanted to go, what she wanted to do, or when. He would just tell her what time he has available to do such-in-such.

If you make her make a decision, you’re basically telling her that she’s the guy. Not only are you telling her to take the lead, but you’re basically giving her control and her attraction for you will quickly fade away.

Instead, have a plan. Tell her where you all are going. Tell her when you’ll pick her up. Know that (especially if you’re dealing with an Alpha Female she might come back with a counter if the timing is inconvenient or she doesn’t like the date idea. Just don’t put it all on her to make the decision. Most women hate making decisions. She will have waaaay more respect for you if you feel comfortable telling her what to do. Simply take the lead. Man Up. It will pay dividends.

And you know what else? She really wants you to take the lead on everything… you need to grab her hand, touch her, kiss her… make all of the first moves. She’s waiting for you baby… just try it. Sure, you may get rejected, but if you’re good at seduction, she’ll most likely go for it. Release the doubt in yourself to get self confidence.

Build the anticipation and plant the seed in her head. Say she brushes past you or gets a little too close… look at her appalled and say “Why are you trying to kiss me?” Of course, she may say something like “I’m not trying to kiss you. I was just…” and you cut her off by saying “Whatever. I know when someone is trying to kiss me and you just did. I’m taking away ten points. Now you’ll have to wait longer for a kiss from me.”

What this does is demonstrate 2 things.
1) That she would want to kiss you and that you would be a good kisser
and 2) That you are obvious flirting. By demonstrating those two things, you’re building desire where there may have been only a small amount. You’re taking the lead… and leading down a path of sensual seduction. Women, real women, want REAL men. Be one by showing this Alpha Male behavior.