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What Turns Women On
What Turns Women On Well I thought I would write an article about what turns women on because I’ve been so sick and tired of dudes who are nothing more than vagina dryers.
Vagina dryer definition
A guy who *would* get sex but because he is too busy being lame, he ends up in the friend zone since he won’t master a few simple techniques that make women go crazy.
I must say that I’m pretty annoyed with most men… those that are a catch on every level, however they fail to turn a woman ON.
It’s sad and disturbing for women who LIKE SEX AS MUCH AS YOU DO, when you don’t man up and turn us on. So I decided to provide a few scenarios of things that hot, alpha males have done to turn me on. I hope you enjoy this… and please USE the ideas on this page to turn a woman on. She will thank you – and you’ll thank me for teaching you what turns women on. ;-)
Scenario #1
I remember going to his house and he would have a rum and coke poured and waiting for me…making sure that I had a red (my favorite color) straw in my glass. He never let the glass become empty either – jumping up to pour another one as soon as I took my second-to-last sip. Slow, sexy, R&B tunes echoed through the speakers. He kept the conversation light. He talked to me like a friend. It was always fun to hang out with him.
Women are turned on by men talking and listening to us. Men who understand the art of conversation and can be a good friend while getting the benefit of being a good lover.
Want to turn a woman on?
Employ the 3-step knock-out.
1. Sexy, soulful music to get her in the mood
2. Alcohol to lower inhibitions
3. Good conversation to make her trust you as a friend
This will work with like 90% of women.
Scenario #2 of What Turns Women On
He told me about all of the women he had been with, but more importantly, he told me about all of the women that he had turned down. He made himself more desirable in my eyes by demonstrating the fact that women were throwing themselves at him, but he was the ultimate decision maker. He also let me know that when (not “if”!) we had sex, it would be the best I ever had.
Women are turned on when men throw sexual talk into a conversation and let her know that he 1) Can get other women 2) Has experience 3) Allude to the fact that he would do her good.
Scenario #3
He wouldn’t tell me the type of cologne that he was wearing. In fact, he would hide the bottle in the center console of his car and cover the whole thing when he picked it up to spray himself. But O-M-G, when I smelled him, I absolutely melted. He smelled like a MAN.
Women are turned on by a man who keeps a few secrets and smells good. There are so many times that we get a whiff of a man and it literally stops us in our tracks. Be that guy!
Scenario #4 of What Turns Women On
He couldn’t keep his hands off of me… rubbing my arms, playing with my fingers and massaging my thighs as we sat talking in the corner booth of that tiny dive bar. He made my private parts feel warm by touching OTHER parts of me.
Women are turned on by a guy who can escalate the physical. Since we don’t really like to be in the driver’s seat when it comes to sexual matters (because it makes us feel slutty), we appreciate it when a man takes the lead. And yes, even sexy, alpha females love when a man takes the lead… we want to submit to him.
A man who makes us lose control… a man who makes us weak… and makes us want to have sex with him without him begging for it…is incrediblyfreakinsexy. Women are turned on by men NOT asking for permission, but leading us toward ecstasy. We are turned on by men who do not need to be taken care of or mothered because he’s THE MAN.
Scenario #5
He opened the car door for me. He helped me put my jacket on. He grabbed for the bill immediately, paid cash for it, and then left a more than proper tip for the server. He called me “hun”, “doll”, “pretty girl”, “gorgeous”, and “sexy”. He flirted with me and was chivalrous!
Women are turned on by men who act like the traditional man and treat us like traditional ladies. The key word here is LADY. He protects us, comforts us, takes care of us, flirts with us, and makes us feel like pretty women.
Want to turn a woman on? Make us the princess while you play the (SEXY!) prince. We want the fairytale, with a little bit of danger mixed in for good measure.
Scenario #6 of What Turns Women On
His eyes were shadowed by the Kangol he had cocked to the side of his head. He looked up at me with those big, bold, blue-green eyes as he slyly said something innocently seductive.
Women are turned on when a guy looks deeply into our eyes and even a blind person could see that he’s thinking about having sex with us. We are turned on by a man with personal style. He wears what he wants and lets us know through his personal style that we’re going to want to have sex with his “original” a$$. Yep, get your own style and start turning some women on!
In coming up with this list of what turns women on, I’m really just thinking about guys who have turned ME on. So if you know what turns women on I’d love to hear your stories… Do you have something you would like to add to the list? Please share your comment below.
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